Love Languages Are Just the Beginning
When it comes to improving your relationship, the popular love language quiz can be a helpful starting point. They reveal how you and your partner prefer to give and receive affection, which is a helpful starting point toward understanding each other’s emotional needs.
But as helpful as love languages are, they only scratch the surface of what makes a thriving, loving, strong and resilient relationship.
If you’re searching for ways to deepen your connection, you’re already on the right track. But true relationship strength comes from understanding each other on a more profound level, beyond surface level communication and affection preferences, and that’s where our Relationship Strength Assessment steps in.
Let’s take a look at three examples where love languages fall short, so you can
see for yourself how and why building deep relationship strength is the way to go.
1. Communication Style Vs Communication Skills
Knowing your partner’s love language, like words of affirmation, helps you show affection in ways they appreciate, but it doesn’t help you or your partner become better communicators. It’s not just about saying the right things; it’s about learning to mindfully listen without getting defensive, and to be able to talk through delicate or sensitive topics smoothly.
Real relationship strength comes from practising effective, compassionate, and honest communication.
Our assessment helps you identify your strengths in communication and pinpoints common patterns that might be holding your relationship back from being the best it can be.
Why is communication so important?
It’s one of the 9 key areas, that are integral for strengthening your relationship as whole.
2. Enjoy Deep Emotional Intimacy AND Physical Connection
Knowing your partner’s love language, whether it’s physical touch or quality time, might help you understand how they prefer to experience intimacy, but truly satisfying intimacy goes beyond just knowing these preferences. It’s about actively cultivating a deep emotional connection that naturally leads to physical closeness, not forcing a choice between the two.
Real relationship strength comes from building a deep, interwoven connection at both emotional, and physical levels. Love languages can skim the surface, and can even make you feel like you have to choose between the two, leaving you feeling incomplete and dissatisfied.
Our assessment explores intimacy in its full spectrum, helping you understand not only how you and your partner express love, but also how deeply connected you are on an emotional level. It delves into your shared values, an essential part of emotional intimacy that helps build trust, meaning and purpose.
3. Giving Gifts & Helping Around the House: Let's go Deeper!
Giving a gift or putting the bins out can be a helpful way to show your love in a practical way, but it does little to demonstrate what your relationship is really built on.
Instead, look into the deeper layers and finer tapestry of connection about what you appreciate about your partner, what your trust is built on and what meaning and vision you share.
Explore ‘the spark’, where’s the fuel?
What’s your unique synergy? In short, go beyond mere preferences, and explore the full spectrum of love!
For example, appreciation isn’t just about giving a thoughtful gift or doing a kind gesture. It’s about truly honouring and valuing each other as individuals, acknowledging each other’s efforts, and creating a sense of gratitude that strengthens your connection.
Similarly, trust isn’t built through one act of service like taking the bins out or cooking dinner. It’s established through a consistent pattern of integrity, honesty, and emotional security over time. This is what our assessment explores and measures for you.
By delving into these critical areas, beyond surface level preferences, you’ll immediately gain a clear understanding of what your relationship is made up of, and how strong it is.
More importantly, you can identify areas for improvement, and get a personalised report and tools to start strengthening your relationship right away.
Wouldn’t you love to have a partner that inspires you to achieve your goals, and supports you every step of the way? Don’t settle for ‘taking the bins out’ and ‘chocki-sprinkles’ on your morning coffee’; live a life filled with shared passion & purpose!
Finally, when it comes to resilience, the ability for your relationship to weather life’s storms, a love language on it’s own is not going to cut it.
True relationship resilience is built on all the foundations of a healthy relationship. It’s about playing to your strengths and supporting each other to get through challenging times.
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