Know More About Yourself and Your Partner
Ask yourself or each other these questions to strengthen your relationship and learn more about each other. Spark discussion and deeper conversations.
Take a moment to ponder your answer, and be sure to let your partner respond to the same question too.
Taking in turns to ask questions is a good idea also.
Reflect on your answers. Are their answers similar or different to yours? What’s that mean for you?
What is something new you found out about your partner?
In what way are you going to better support each other?
And finally, what Life Values are aligned or in conflict?
Questions for a Healthy Relationship
Why Ask Relationship Questions?
Asking deep questions strengthens your relationship. You will learn something new about each other, and you’ll become better ‘equipped’ to resolve problems in the future and so much more.
Other ways deep conversations and growing a healthy relationship can benefit you include:
- To raise the quality of your relationship.
- More intimacy and connection.
- To strengthen boundaries.
- Relational awareness and partner preferences.
- Work out who’s responsible for what, and be better organised.
- Improve the standards in your relationship and home.
- To know more about each other.
- To resolve problems before they are an issue.
- Find forgiveness earlier.
- Move on from the past.
- Practice gratitude and self-care.
- Have more fun in your relationship.
- & so much more!
Improve Communication in Your Relationship
Have these questions sparked discussion between you?
If you notice unresolved issues or lingering resentment in your relationship, I encourage you to learn more about the benefits of couples couneselling.
You might also be interested in learning how the Smooth Conversation Cards are great for resolving sticky & tricky problems in your relationship!
