Save My Marriage Program

With Couples Counsellor Jacqui Hogan

Save My Marriage Program with Jacqueline Hogan
Jacqui Hogan – Couples Counsellor, BASW, Dip PsyC, Gottman Lvl 3, RLT Lvl3

Is Your Relationship at Breaking Point?

If you’re feeling stressed, frustrated or heart-broken with conflicting emotions and ongoing relationship issues, ease the burden and learn about Jacqui’s popular Save My Marriage Program.

Discover how it’s possible to restore your loving relationship built on a new foundation of trust, respect, love and forgiveness.

Get in touch with Jacqui to talk through your particular situation or read on to learn more about the Save My Marriage Program and how to turn your relationship around.

When Enough is Enough

It's Time to Draw a Line in the Sand

Escalating Conflict

Constant, heated arguments create a cycle of hurt and resentment, leaving you both feeling drained and disconnected. This ongoing tension affects everyone in your household, including children, adding to the strain within your relationship.

Betrayal & Infidelity

The pain of broken trust and betrayal runs deep, often stirring feelings of shame, guilt, and heartbreak. Infidelity leaves lasting wounds and is a leading cause of separation and divorce.

Negative Sentiment

Constantly seeing the negative in your partner and harbouring resentment causes you to drift further apart, eroding your connection. Left unchecked, it becomes harder to see eye to eye, making meaningful communication feel out of reach.

Broken Communication

Criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling, known as the “Four Horsemen” are clear warning signs of broken communication. These destructive patterns creep in slowly but can ultimately tear your relationship apart if left unaddressed.

Severed Connection

Mismatched values, diverging goals, and a lack of shared direction can leave your relationship feeling empty. When passion fades and shared dreams disappear, what remains is a sense of disconnection; a life together, yet worlds apart.

Avoidant Behaviour

Turning your back on relationship issues eventually becomes a heavy burden, weighing you down day by day. Depression, sadness, poor sleep, and low energy often follow. Many look for comfort outside the relationship, yet the unresolved problems remain, casting a shadow over everything.

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The weight of a failing marriage is a heavy burden to bear and feels overwhelming and isolating.

Lingering Resentment

Lingering resentment feels like a sharp stone in your shoe; it grates at every step, slowly eroding your joy and happiness. No matter how much you distract yourself, unresolved resentment can 'drive you crazy' with frustration, taking a toll on your mental health and quality of life.

Unrelenting Pressure & Stress

Daily pressure and stress can build up and spill over if left unmanaged. From work, family, finances, children, to health issues and more, this constant strain can create destructive behaviour patterns that destabilise the very foundation of your relationship.

Unfulfilled Dreams & Desires

When dreams go unfulfilled, it can feel like life is passing you by. As days and years slip away, feelings of loneliness and desperation can creep in, putting your relationship at real risk of being derailed.

Lost Intimacy

When physical connection fades, it can feel like you’re living as room-mates rather than partners. The lack of intimacy leaves you feeling isolated, unloved, and longing for closeness, putting a silent strain on the love you once shared.

Invisible & Unappreciated

Feeling unsupported and unloved by your partner can take its toll on your sense of identity and self-worth. When you feel used or unappreciated, that loving feeling fades, allowing distance to grow and resentment to fester.

Controlling Behaviour

Feeling controlled by your partner is suffocating and erodes your confidence and self-worth, creating a sense of isolation. This loss of independence fuels resentment and emotional distance, gradually draining the affection and love you once shared until the relationship feels hollow or breaks apart entirely.

Happy Healthy Relationships

Stronger Together

Reduce Conflict

De-escalate conflict and manage your emotions. Process underlying issues calmly, hold regard for each other, and welcome a new respectful way of communicating.

Healthy Communication

It's crucial the 'Four Horsemen' are eliminated from your relationship as soon as possible. In fact it's essential, for the healing work to begin. After slaying the Four Horsemen, you'll discover how to have healthy and respectful conversations. Feel heard. Start softly and express your needs clearly and calmly. Improve listening and understanding.

Taking Responsibility

Empowerment comes through taking responsibility. Disrupt negative thought patterns, and retire old unhelpful beliefs and behaviours. Sharpen your character, identity, and find your reason to change and live in alignment with your empowering set of values to achieve peace, harmony & fulfilment in your relationship. Feel safe, appreciated and loved, in your happy, secure relationship.

Rebuild Trust

Process infidelity, betrayal and broken trust in a safe space. Move through feelings of grief, shame & guilt toward forgiveness. Create a healthy space in your relationship with new standards to support each other, empathise, forgive, understand and recover.

Cherish & Respect

Dissolve negative sentiment and release negative thoughts and feelings clouding your relationship. Break free from unhelpful patterns and behaviours suffocating your relationship. Invite positive sentiment into your relationship and see the 'good' in your partner more often. Feel closer, happier, accepted and loved. Know your partner intimately. From life values to childhood dreams. Increase the fondness and admiration in your relationship.

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When love triumphs all: Rebuild your relationship on a new foundation of trust, respect, love, and forgivenss.

Life Balance

Find life balance and manage complex layers in your life & relationship. Acceptance, boundaries, support, and personal health, as well creating a inspiring life vision are all part of getting through difficult times and strengthening the bond you share.

Reduce Stress

Manage stress with love & kindness. Find healthy outlets and create boundaries to protect your relationship. Support each other and work together as a team to get through difficult times.

Warm Connection

Discover your shared values. Create new rituals of connection. Feel heard by your partner. Be valued, and support each other. Find common ground and know how to resolve tension before it becomes a problem. Be supported through change with a new sense of relational awareness. Feel calm and be emotionally grounded as you grow and nurture your relationship into the future.

Rekindle Love & Affection

Spark new love and affection. Welcome fondness and a close, warm connection, built on trust and a deeper emotional bond. Communicate on a deeper level, feel heard, understood and admired for who you are. Let love in and dissolve emotional blocks.

Start With a Discovery Session

Get in touch with Jacqui and talk through your particular situation.
Jacqui understands what you are going through, and is here to help.

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For Couples on the Brink of Divorce

Begin Emotional Healing

  • Release shame, guilt, sadness, anger and frustration.
  • Defuse tension, and craft an inspiring vision for the future together.
  • Resolve perpetual problems and reach a happy compromise.
  • Restore communication with kindness, compassion and sincerity.
  • Rebuild trust, find forgiveness, and heal broken hearts.
  • Nurture your relationship and develop a deeper connection.

What Clients Are Saying

A & P DD
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Attending Jacqueline Hogan's "Save Our Marriage" retreat was a truly transformative experience for my partner and me. We were at a critical point in our relationship, but Jacqueline's compassionate and insightful approach provided us with the tools and perspective we needed to reconnect. She created a safe space for open communication, allowing us to address our challenges and rediscover the love that brought us together. We left the retreat feeling more connected and with a clear path forward. I highly recommend this retreat to any couple looking to strengthen their relationship and create a marriage 2.0!
Michelle
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My partner and I were in a very dark place before we met Jacqui, I was not confident we could find a way back. I’m so grateful to have found Jacqui. With her support, professionalism and the arsenal of tools she has provided for us, our relationship is now better than it has been for a decade.
G C
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I am so glad that we chose Jacqueline to be our relationship counsellor. Just when it seemed to my wife and I that there was no way forward together, thankfully one of the few things that we agreed upon was choosing Jacqueline from all of the counselling services that we could see online. The Save My Marriage program did exactly that for us. We are communicating like we never had in the past, and we have restored intimacy, love, and trust to our relationship. I feel we are on solid foundations now, and we have both learned to forgive, and how to become better partners.
Dr Janine ArnoldClient Review
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Working with Jacqui was very rewarding for me. I am now in control of my life, and I can believe in myself again. I was able to develop an excellent rapport with Jacqui, I would definitely recommend her to others.
Sara Newman
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Jacqueline was highly professional, experienced, caring, positive and knowledgeable in my experience. She provided easy to follow tools and advice to both of us for communicating in a better way to improve our relationship, and space to do so while being considerate of our emotional well-being too. It feels scary and emotional at times but also worth doing the work, I valued her honesty and intent on a good outcome, and trust in her abilities to help couples during difficult times in their relationship.
Rachael CollinsClient Review
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I would highly recommend Jacqui. Her knowledge and tools helped us mend and save our marriage when we were stuck and thought there was little hope of recovering. We committed to her step by step program that we worked through together; Which taught us to communicate and work through our issues.
Simon Carter
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Most Excellent!
ConfidentialClient Review
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We came in feeling hopeless and preparing for divorce and left with hope.
Kate KoopmansClient Review
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I went off the tracks a few times and nearly crashed but with the tools provided in the program, I used those to avoid crashing and steered my way back onto the track.
ConfidentialClient Review
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By the 12th appointment it was really clear why Jacqui structures the program the way she has. We did the majority of our sessions via Zoom calls, this worked really well for us with young kids and having a distance to travel to get to Bendigo. The program is very confronting and you learn a lot about yourself and your partner, but Jacqui is very supportive and adds cheeky humour to lighten the mood along the way. Our marriage is still not perfect, but we are getting there and the tools and techniques we learnt throughout the program will be with us for life. For this, I thank you Jacqui and would recommend you to anyone of any age.
A LClient Feedback
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"Thank you so much for the affirmation, I love it and will use it everyday from now on... With her and yourself in my corner, I’m sure I can keep progressing to be the person I want to be and that my family deserve. Thanks again Jacqui, you’re a legend."
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"Thank goodness I found you. You have done more for me than any counsellor I’ve ever been to before."
A FClient Feedback
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"Our communication has been great! Conversations have been enjoyable and [husband] is really enjoying the deep breathing exercises and meditation."
ConfidentialClient Feedback
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"I think we are making progress as we have talked a lot more openly about this recent issue and moved on a lot quicker than we would have in the past. I had a lot of self awareness around my responses and reactions and have not punished him for the mistake. I’m feeling much better this morning."
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Save My Marriage Program Product Bundle by Jacqueline Hogan

Save My Marriage Program, Developed by Jacqueline Hogan
A Life Changing Opportunity for Couples

Life Changing Resources

In addition to your 1:1 counselling sessions, receive additional support with Jacqui’s helpful resources to restore harmony in your relationship during this difficult time.

  • Easy to follow step-by-step program developed by Jacqui to rekindle love and connection between your 1:1 sessions.
  • Helpful exercises to strengthen your relationship and breakthrough personal blocks.
  • Couples Journal, with carefully crafted questions to inspire deep reflection and insightful transformation.
  • Repair relationship problems calmly with Jacqui’s popular ‘Smooth Conversation Cards’.
  • Discover your shared relationship values with Jacqui’s powerful Life Values cards.
  • Ignite new passion, strengthen your connection and invite new fun & romance with ‘Love Sparks’ – Jacqui’s relationship affirmation cards.
  • Premium Members Area access to Jacqui’s library of resources including guided meditations, eBooks, videos & more to support your relationship transformation & success.

Deep Relationship Transformation

“By the 12th appointment it was really clear why Jacqui structures the program the way she has.

We did the majority of our sessions via Zoom calls, this worked really well for us with young kids and having a distance to travel to get to Bendigo.

The program is very confronting and you learn a lot about yourself and your partner, but Jacqui is very supportive and adds cheeky humour to lighten the mood along the way.

Our marriage is still not perfect, but we are getting there and the tools and techniques we learnt throughout the program will be with us for life.

For this, I thank you Jacqui and would recommend you to anyone of any age.”

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Jacqueline Hogan Couples Counsellor - Mornington Peninsula & Melbourne
Jacqui Hogan – Couples Counsellor BASW, Dip PsyC, Gottman Lvl 3, RLT Lvl 3

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